[FEA]: Investigate supporting allocators within libcu++

[miscco]

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libcu++

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

Allocators are a foundational building block for many features of the STL.

Besides that, memory allocation is a constant thorn when working with CUDA C++.

We should implement allocator support within libcu++ and provide extensions, so that users can utilize e.g. stream based allocations and access to the different memory categories that are supported on device

Describe the solution you'd like

We first need to modularize our exception handling code so that we can at least include the relevant headers when compiling for device.

We then need to adopt allocator_traits and allocator to be usable on device. This should be feasible because for the default case we can fall back to host side operator new

This depends on #179

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