Option to reset the query on refetch

[stavros-tsioulis]

When calling query.refetch(), it would be helpful to have the ability to reset the query to its pending state.

I know we can use isFetching orisRefetching to display a loading state, but as I understand, per TQ's defaults, the loading state in such a case would also be shown when a query is automatically refetched when a query becomes stale.

I'm imagining the API to look like this:

query.refetch({ reset: true })

Thank you for the amazing library and I'm looking forward to some input on this.