Row selection abstraction somewhat clunky

[Faithfinder]

Currently you can implement row selection in 2 manners: as a built in feature of UI layer, or as a special column.
However, either experience is somewhat clunky:

The column definition would be repeated for every table, making it a good idea to abstract it. However, an abstracted definition isn't connected to specific table data, having a type of DisplayColumnDef<unknown>. This makes it unassignable to TableOptions of specific data, with an error of I was expecting a type matching Person, but instead you passed unknown. Can be bypassed by specifying any instead of unknown, of course, but, yknow.

Making it a table feature, however, is missing information on whether the feature is enabled on the table instance, there's only getCanSelect on the row itself. However, the whole column shouldn't be shown when enableRowSelection is false. This can be bypassed by making the feature toggle a prop of the UI component, but this is somewhat confusing as every other feature is managed via TableOptions.

My proposed solution is to expose a table.getCanSelect for the second scenario.

[Faithfinder]

const canSelect = table.options.enableRowSelection !== false; is how it can be done