remove (or move) paused prop

[YangJonghun]

I think the paused prop needs to be fixed before v6 is released.

Many situations require synchronizing the state of the video and the UI (controller) implemented in JS, and it would be great if we could only synchronize it in JS, but in reality the state is often changed by other external factors, so there is a lot of room for misunderstanding and misuse.

In most cases, you can synchronize the state in JS with ref.resume(), ref.puase(), and onPlaybackStateChanged, with the only exception being that they don't handle whether or not the video is playing when it first starts.

Therefore, I think the proper implementation of paused is to expose it externally so that it is controllable only when the first state is injected, such as startPosition in the source prop.

example)

source={{ initPlaybackState?: "play" | "pause" }}
// or
source={{ playWhenReady?: boolean }}

[freeboub]

@YangJonghun I hope you fix this issue, but you can use the prop at start pause={true}. and then use ref.resume(), ref.pause() afterward. maybe we can add a onPlaybackStateChanged near the onload event ?