GH-43547: [R][CI] Add recheck workflow for checking reverse dependencies on GHA (#43784)

### Rationale for this change

See #43547.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Adds two new new crossbow tasks for performing reverse dependency checking using https://github.com/r-devel/recheck: 

- `r-recheck-most` 
- `r-recheck-strong`

### Are these changes tested?

Yes. #44523 (comment).

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* GitHub Issue: #43547

Fixes #43547.

Authored-by: Bryce Mecum <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Bryce Mecum <[email protected]>

Author: amoeba

Diff for: dev/tasks/r/github.recheck.yml

@@ -0,0 +1,30 @@
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+
+{% import 'macros.jinja' as macros with context %}
+
+{{ macros.github_header() }}
+
+jobs:
+  recheck:
+    name: Reverse check {{ which }} dependents
+    uses: r-devel/recheck/.github/workflows/recheck.yml@9fe04de60ebeadd505b8d76223a346617ccca836
+    with:
+      which: {{ which }}
+      subdirectory: r
+      repository: {{ arrow.github_repo }}
+      ref: {{ arrow.branch }}

Diff for: dev/tasks/tasks.yml

@@ -94,6 +94,7 @@ groups:
   r:
     - test*-r-*
     - r-binary-packages
+    - r-recheck-most
 
   ruby:
     - test-*ruby*
@@ -901,6 +902,20 @@ tasks:
       - r-pkg__bin__macosx__big-sur-arm64__contrib__4.3__arrow_{no_rc_r_version}\.tgz
       - r-pkg__src__contrib__arrow_{no_rc_r_version}\.tar\.gz
 
+{% for which in ["strong", "most"] %}
+  # strong and most used here are defined by ?tools::package_dependencies as:
+  #
+  # strong: Depends, Imports, LinkingTo
+  # most: Depends, Imports, LinkingTo, Suggests
+  #
+  # So the key difference between strong and most is whether you want to expand
+  # the reverse dependency checking to Suggests (most) or not.
+  r-recheck-{{which}}:
+    ci: github
+    template: r/github.recheck.yml
+    params:
+      which: {{which}}
+{% endfor %}
 
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