Add opt-in stream error log throttling #6043

Job	Run time
Check / Tests (scala213)	36m 41s
Java 21 Extra Tests	3m 47s
Check / Tests (next)	37m 36s
Pekko Classic Remoting Tests (cluster/test distributed-data/test cluster-tools/test cluster-metri...	9m 26s
Check / Code Style	3m 41s
Check / Tests (scala3)	36m 15s
	2h 7m 26s

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