fix(tabs): respect stencil lifecycle order for tab selection #17136

Job	Run time
build-core	1m 11s
test-core-clean-build	15s
test-core-spec	48s
build-angular	58s
test-core-lint	47s
build-react	45s
build-vue	35s
build-angular-server	36s
test-core-screenshot (3, 20)	4m 21s
test-core-screenshot (4, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (5, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (2, 20)	4m 19s
test-core-screenshot (6, 20)	4m 19s
test-core-screenshot (8, 20)	3m 54s
test-core-screenshot (10, 20)	3m 29s
test-core-screenshot (14, 20)	4m 19s
test-core-screenshot (1, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (12, 20)	4m 5s
test-core-screenshot (17, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (11, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (15, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (19, 20)	4m 19s
test-core-screenshot (7, 20)	3m 6s
test-core-screenshot (9, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (16, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (18, 20)	4m 20s
test-core-screenshot (20, 20)	4m 21s
test-core-screenshot (13, 20)	4m 19s
build-vue-router	40s
build-react-router	25s
test-angular-e2e (ng19)	3m 30s
test-angular-e2e (ng20)	3m 32s
test-angular-e2e (ng18)	3m 38s
test-angular-e2e (ng17)	3m 37s
test-angular-e2e (ng16)	3m 37s
test-react-e2e (react18)	3m 0s
test-react-router-e2e (reactrouter5)	3m 11s
test-react-e2e (react17)	2m 54s
test-react-e2e (react19)	3m 0s
test-vue-e2e (vue3)	3m 21s
verify-screenshots	4s
verify-test-react-e2e	2s
verify-test-react-router-e2e	2s
verify-test-angular-e2e	3s
verify-test-vue-e2e	4s
	2h 4m 26s

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