[v24.1.x] rm_stm/tests: add a stress test for concurrent eviction / replication / snapshots

[vbotbuildovich]

Backport #24490 to branch v24.1.x. This issue was created as a placeholder because the original PR's commit(s) could not be automatically cherry-picked.
Here are the commands to execute:

git checkout v24.1.x
git checkout -b manual-backport-24490-v24.1.x-304
git cherry-pick -x 48371f4540 4015d4df0f 4ee6b02436

git push origin manual-backport-24490-v24.1.x-304
gh pr create \
  --title "[v24.1.x] rm_stm/tests: add a stress test for concurrent eviction / replication / snapshots" \
  --base "v24.1.x" \
  --label "kind/backport" \
  --head "manual-backport-24490-v24.1.x-304" \
  --draft \
  --repo "redpanda-data/redpanda" \
  --milestone "v24.1.x-next" \
  --body "Backport of PR https://github.com/redpanda-data/redpanda/pull/24490 "

JIRA Link: [CORE-8521](https://redpandadata.atlassian.net/browse/CORE-8521)