fix: resizing window causes 'ResizeObserver loop completed with undelivered notifications' error

[reidbarber]

Closes #7718

The error shown is likely due to how DOM changes triggered by the resize observer cause further resize events in the same frame. We can mitigate this by waiting until the next frame to apply the updates. This one may need a decent amount of manual regression testing.

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
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• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
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📝 Test Instructions:

1. Open the RAC -> Popover Example story in it's own tab
2. Open the console and resize your window rapidly to cause the popover position to be updated
3. Verify that there is no ResizeObserver loop completed with undelivered notifications error in the console

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[snowystinger]

I did this a long time ago
#2891

Which we had to revert due to #4204

We'll have to check if the issue that caused us to revert it happens in this PR as well. There isn't a lot of info on what it was, might be good to go back and check some of our testing sheets if you can.

[reidbarber]

@snowystinger

Looked back and looks like tooltip positions were broken in chromatic, which led to #4202 (comment), which we reverted because the original bug was reintroduced.

[reidbarber]

@snowystinger not seeing anything noteworthy: https://www.chromatic.com/build?appId=5f0dd5ad2b5fc10022a2e320&number=900

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[snowystinger]

@snowystinger not seeing anything noteworthy: https://www.chromatic.com/build?appId=5f0dd5ad2b5fc10022a2e320&number=900

https://www.chromatic.com/test?appId=5f0dd5ad2b5fc10022a2e320&id=67aa8fee55d156ca20f02823
this one is new, it's not a flaky test

That said, it looks like the chromatic snapshot has been wrong, it shouldn't have been stacked vertically all this time. Let's see if we can find out more about what has happened there