Fixing OSX installation

[SalmanMohammadi]

Description

• This PR automatically omits osx-incompatible dependencies in the setup.py, so we can pip install -e on mac.
• I've had to update the pylint version in the pre-commit as it was incompatible with 3.12.
• This comes with minimal testing, so please bear with me as I test more features and roll out more consistent mac support.

Motivation and Context

Closes #2221

How has this been tested?

• Fresh python 3.12 env
• pip install -r requirements-dev.txt -r requirements-tests.txt
• pip install -e .

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[NanoCode012]

Thanks for looking into this. Let me know when you need a review.