Improve build memory consumption and support clang-19

[ZacBlanco]

What problem does this PR solve?

• Fix poorly performing compilation units that cause build instability in memory-constrained environments and enable building with clang-19

Type of Change

• 🐛 Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• ✨ New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• 🚀 Performance improvement (optimization)
• ⚠️ Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)
• 🔨 Refactoring (no logic changes)
• 🔧 Build/CI or Infrastructure changes
• 📝 Documentation only

Description

There are 4 sets of changes in this PR:

1. Improve memory usage during compilation by splitting MinMaxByAggregates.cpp registration functions into two separate units instead (one for min, one for max). This helps reduce the compilation time by allowing the work to be split across two cores.
2. Improve memory usage during compilation by reducing the number of required template instantiations inside of CastExptr-tpl.cpp. This unit is the most resource-intensive of the entire build. The changes to this file reduce the required template instantiations by about 67% which in-turn reduces compilation time by a similar margin (over 5-10 minutes now down to around 2 minutes
3. Dependencies: Upgrade libunwind to 1.8.0->1.8.3 to fix a bug compiling on ARM. Upgrades duckdb recipe to 0.8.2->1.1.3 so we can compile it and bolt in an environment with clang 19. Moving to clang 19 is a good leap forward for the project. IMO we should aim to be building on the newest compilers as possible so that we can utilize new language features/libraries to keep bolt at the cutting-edge of performance.
4. Adds a new devcontainer based on the existing one, but with clang-19 configured as the default compiler.

Performance Impact

• No Impact: This change does not affect the critical path (e.g., build system, doc, error handling).
• Positive Impact: I have run benchmarks.
• Negative Impact: Explained below (e.g., trade-off for correctness).

Release Note

Release Note:

Release Note:
- Upgrade DuckDB dependency to 1.1.3
- Add a clang-based devcontainer.

Checklist (For Author)

• I have added/updated unit tests (ctest).
• I have verified the code with local build (Release/Debug).
• I have run clang-format / linters.
• (Optional) I have run Sanitizers (ASAN/TSAN) locally for complex C++ changes.
• No need to test or manual test.

Breaking Changes

• No
• Yes (Description: ...)

[ZacBlanco]

Closing this in favor of splitting the PR into a smaller and more managable set of changes

1. First PR will be building with clang 19
2. Second will be improving compilation unit time
3. Last, add the bolt build skill

[ZacBlanco]

• The first PR is build: support compiling with clang 19 #458
• Second is build: Reduce cost of heavy compilation units #459
• Third is docs: Add bolt-build skill #460