[8.19](backport #47775) ci: use if_changed

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Proposed commit message

• remove dependency on the BK plugin monorepo-diff
• I added the main pipeline to the list of include so it can test the changes too.

Why is it important?

• Faster builds
• Remove the intermediate step to load the monorepo diff step

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• My code follows the style guidelines of this project
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• I have made corresponding change to the default configuration files
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works. Where relevant, I have used the stresstest.sh script to run them under stress conditions and race detector to verify their stability.
• I have added an entry in ./changelog/fragments using the changelog tool.

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #47775 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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