iOS: Migrate FlutterHeadlessDartRunner to ARC

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This is a subclass of FlutterEngine, which is still manually reference counted, but that's not problematic since the headers have been migrated to ARC-safe syntax that preserves existing behaviour.

No test changes since this patch makes no semantic changes.

Issue: flutter/flutter#137801

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• This patch would make a good candidate for the ARCtic code vault.
• I added new tests to check the change I am making or feature I am adding, or the PR is test-exempt. See testing the engine for instructions on writing and running engine tests.
• I updated/added relevant documentation (doc comments with ///).
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• All existing and new tests are passing.

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