gRPC callbackService support added

[shankeleven]

Added Support for gRPC CallbackService

gRPC supports two flavors of asynchronous callbacks -- from their documentation:

https://grpc.io/docs/languages/cpp/callback/

gRPC C++ offers two kinds of APIs: sync APIs and async APIs. More specifically, we have two kinds of async APIs: the old one > is completion-queue based; the new one is callback-based, which is easier to use.
Since we want to implement the service using the callback APIs, the service interface we should implement is
RouteGuide::CallbackService.

Checklist

• --grpc-callback-api flag plumbed into flatc.
• Macros (GRPC_CALLBACK_API_NONEXPERIMENTAL + FLATBUFFERS_GENERATED_GRPC_CALLBACK_API) gate code.
• Compile-only tests for server & client callback APIs pass (ensuring symbols exist).
• Generated server CallbackService with reactor methods.
• Generated client Stub with async_ unary (callback + reactor) and streaming reactor entry points.

[shankeleven]

@dbaileychess @mustiikhalil @aardappel could you guys please review this , if there are any changes required , I'd be happy to make them

[aardappel]

Generally looks good!

[shankeleven]

there were some issues wiht the CI buildkite, so had to make some minor changes, nothing substantial
@aardappel sorry to bother for re-approval

[aardappel]

Some of the CI errors definitely relates to this PR: https://github.com/google/flatbuffers/actions/runs/17030064051/job/48271145482?pr=8666

[shankeleven]

this buildkite check has not been triggered ig