Use deque instead of slice for queues

[gammazero]

Implementing a queue by appending to a slice will makes more GC work as the end of slice's memory is reached. Instead use a deque that maintains a circular buffer that reuses memory from removed items.

Fixed a case where a new timer was created during each iteration of a loop, instead of reusing a timer.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 75.92593% with 13 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 60.40%. Comparing base (ef25808) to head (16f33ac).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
bitswap/client/internal/session/cidqueue.go	14.28%	11 Missing and 1 partial ⚠️
bitswap/testnet/virtual.go	87.50%	1 Missing ⚠️

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+ Coverage   60.38%   60.40%   +0.01%     
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  Files         245      245              
  Lines       31069    31063       -6     
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+ Hits        18762    18763       +1     
+ Misses      10635    10628       -7     
  Partials     1672     1672              

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
...client/internal/messagequeue/donthavetimeoutmgr.go	95.19% <100.00%> (ø)
bitswap/network/connecteventmanager.go	86.25% <100.00%> (-2.47%)	⬇️
bitswap/network/ipfs_impl.go	79.48% <100.00%> (-1.86%)	⬇️
ipld/merkledag/merkledag.go	76.58% <100.00%> (+0.22%)	⬆️
ipld/merkledag/traverse/traverse.go	66.66% <100.00%> (-0.61%)	⬇️
ipld/unixfs/hamt/hamt.go	76.62% <100.00%> (-0.04%)	⬇️
bitswap/testnet/virtual.go	68.42% <87.50%> (ø)
bitswap/client/internal/session/cidqueue.go	51.28% <14.28%> (-8.72%)	⬇️

... and 7 files with indirect coverage changes