Use zmq-anyio #2679

Job	Run time
Test Lint	54s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	2m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	2m 4s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	1m 57s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	1m 57s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	2m 6s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	2m 7s
check_release	1m 35s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	2m 5s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	2m 6s
Make SDist	30s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	2m 3s
test_docs	38s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	2m 5s
Test Minimum Versions	2m 4s
Test Prereleases	2m 4s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	2m 3s
link_check	2m 3s
Install from SDist and Test	1m 29s
coverage	1s
tests_check	8s
	34m 3s

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