Use zmq-anyio #2681

Job	Run time
test_docs	44s
check_release	1m 40s
link_check	3m 27s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 35s
Make SDist	23s
Test Lint	1m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 21s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	5m 54s
Test Minimum Versions	20m 12s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	6m 47s
Test Prereleases	2m 0s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 43s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	15m 50s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	2m 57s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	15m 40s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	5m 15s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	2m 56s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 27s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 4s
coverage	0s
tests_check	3s
	2h 5m 2s

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