Use zmq-anyio #2694

Job	Run time
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	12m 37s
check_release	1m 45s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 48s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	4m 44s
link_check	2m 4s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	6m 46s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	12m 38s
Make SDist	25s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	4m 35s
test_docs	38s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	12m 37s
Test Lint	51s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	6m 7s
Test Minimum Versions	12m 37s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 14s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 59s
Test Prereleases	2m 24s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	12m 37s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 25s
coverage	1s
tests_check	2s
	1h 46m 54s

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