Use zmq-anyio #2705

Job	Run time
check_release	1m 45s
test_docs	47s
Test Lint	50s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	6m 41s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 56s
link_check	1m 40s
Make SDist	34s
Test Minimum Versions	6m 45s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	6m 5s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	6m 34s
Test Prereleases	2m 22s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	6m 44s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	6m 44s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	4m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	6m 42s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	4m 4s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 33s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 57s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 15s
coverage	1s
tests_check	1s
	1h 16m 4s

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