Use zmq-anyio #2707

Job	Run time
Test Lint	56s
test_docs	40s
check_release	1m 32s
Test Minimum Versions	20m 13s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 35s
Test Prereleases	2m 27s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	15m 40s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 42s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	3m 27s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	5m 4s
link_check	3m 30s
Make SDist	31s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	16m 5s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	4m 46s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	15m 43s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 14s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	3m 6s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 40s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 15s
coverage	0s
tests_check	3s
	2h 2m 9s

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