Use zmq-anyio #2711

Job	Run time
Test Lint	1m 1s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	3m 10s
check_release	1m 44s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	3m 9s
link_check	3m 31s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	2m 23s
Make SDist	21s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	3m 36s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	3m 35s
test_docs	42s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	4m 9s
Test Minimum Versions	4m 8s
Test Prereleases	2m 22s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	2m 15s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	4m 8s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	3m 1s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	2m 50s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	3m 8s
Install from SDist and Test	2m 24s
coverage	1s
tests_check	4s
	51m 42s

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