Use zmq-anyio #2716

Job	Run time
test_docs	38s
check_release	1m 17s
link_check	1m 17s
Make SDist	21s
Test Lint	55s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	1m 14s
Test Minimum Versions	1m 15s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.13)	1m 16s
Test Prereleases	1m 16s
test_without_debugpy (ubuntu-latest, 3.9)	1m 17s
build (windows-latest, 3.9)	1m 7s
build (windows-latest, 3.13)	59s
build (macos-latest, 3.9)	1m 15s
build (macos-latest, 3.13)	1m 16s
build (ubuntu-latest, pypy-3.9)	1m 14s
build (macos-latest, 3.10)	1m 17s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.11)	1m 14s
build (ubuntu-latest, 3.12)	1m 15s
build (windows-latest, 3.10, 3.11, 3.12)	9s
Install from SDist and Test	48s
coverage	1s
tests_check	2s
	21m 23s

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