Windows changes

[jacobtread]

Description of the changes
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Pretty big cleanup of the whole windows side of things

Fixed and cleaned up some memory allocations. Memory for the extended tables wasn't be fully deallocated and the initialize size allocation was ignored so it would reallocate regardless of fit. (All previous issues were fixed)

Looks like in the original I forgot to close the process handle after terminating so that's done here as well

I've moved things to a more generic angle the different IP and Protocols now use the same shared function for loading the extended tables and then the implementation for reading from them is a trait implementation for the specific type

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• Documentation update (adding or updating documentation, updating README)

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Additional information
Apologies for the previously mentioned issues haven't really worked with Windows APIs before so this was my first time working with them

[jkfran]

Thank you so much!