[WIP] Manage a specified portion of resources

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What type of PR is this?

/kind feature

What this PR does / why we need it:

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

xref #1122

Special notes for your reviewer:

Compatibility with existing flags and configurations

This allows you to specify resources to manage, not just nodes.

Use --manage Node:metadata.name=<nodename> instead of --manage-single-node <nodename>.
Use --manage Node instead of --manage-all-nodes.
Use --manage Node:metadata.annotations.<key>=<value> instead of --manage-nodes-with-annotation-selector <key>=<value>.
Use --manage Node:metadata.labels.<key>=<value> instead of --manage-nodes-with-label-selector <key>=<value>.
and have the same configuration change

[BROKEN] Use --manage will no longer manage all resources with Stages by default; it will only manage specified resources.

Examples

Use --manage VirtualMachineInstance.kubevirt.io/v1 to specified https://github.com/kubevirt/kubevirtci/blob/4cc10185aca83b7d884183ecf6ff7dfc040f23fc/cluster-provision/k8s/1.31/manifests/kwok/kubevirt/stage/vmi-ready.yaml

Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?

Add --manage to specify which resources to manage instead of --manage-* 

Additional documentation e.g., KEPs (Kubernetes Enhancement Proposals), usage docs, etc.:

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