Parse and correctly set Gemini safety settings

[drewgillson]

Why are these changes needed?

The provided example at the top of this file did not work correctly. Safety settings need to be parsed into Vertex AI objects and cannot just be a dictionary of simple objects.

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[drewgillson]

@microsoft-github-policy-service agree

[qingyun-wu]

@drewgillson thanks for the contribution, could you fix the code formatting issue by running pre-commit? Thanks!
@BeibinLi could you help review? Thank you!