tools: add an option to generate lighter archives

[aduh95]

I don't know if we're ever going to get to a point where we can release those lighter releases, but in the mean time, we can use it to get slightly faster CI and guarantee that we are only not using any vendored deps when we want to use shared ones.

[nodejs-github-bot]

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 88.03%. Comparing base (9e8c753) to head (13cd8ae).
⚠️ Report is 2 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   88.60%   88.03%   -0.57%     
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  Files         704      704              
  Lines      208325   208325              
  Branches    40041    39953      -88     
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- Hits       184581   183407    -1174     
- Misses      15797    16899    +1102     
- Partials     7947     8019      +72     

see 109 files with indirect coverage changes

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