resolve rapids-dependency-file-generator warning (#482)

Contributes to rapidsai/dependency-file-generator#89.

`--file_key` has been deprecated in `rapids-dependency-file-generator` for a few months, and I'm looking to fully remove it.

This PR proposes:

* switching this project's uses from `--file_key` to `--file-key`
* updating the version of `rapids-dependency-file-generator` used in `pre-commit` to its latest release
* switching from `mamba env create --force` to `mamba env create --yes`

Authors:
  - James Lamb (https://github.com/jameslamb)

Approvers:
  - Christopher Harris (https://github.com/cwharris)

URL: #482

.pre-commit-config.yaml

@@ -2,7 +2,7 @@
 
 repos:
       - repo: https://github.com/rapidsai/dependency-file-generator
-        rev: v1.7.1
+        rev: v1.13.11
         hooks:
             - id: rapids-dependency-file-generator
               args: ["--clean"]

ci/check_style.sh

@@ -21,10 +21,10 @@ rapids-logger "Create checks conda environment"
 
 rapids-dependency-file-generator \
   --output conda \
-  --file_key checks \
+  --file-key checks \
   --matrix "cuda=${RAPIDS_CUDA_VERSION%.*};arch=$(arch);py=${RAPIDS_PY_VERSION}" | tee env.yaml
 
-rapids-mamba-retry env create --force -f env.yaml -n checks
+rapids-mamba-retry env create --yes -f env.yaml -n checks
 conda activate checks
 
 # Run pre-commit checks