ddl: check when updateVersionAndTableInfo (#62470)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #62470

This is the first part to fix 62457
do not let the database down check

use updateVersionAndTableInfoWithCheck instead of updateVersionAndTableInfo to make the
db run happy first.

cc @lance6716

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #62457

Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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