feat(stream): introduce allocator_api in JoinHashMap

[TennyZhuang]

What's changed and what's your intention?

As title.

Please note that only memory used in the hash map itself is counted, blocking on rust-lang/rust#77438

Checklist

• I have written necessary docs and comments
• I have added necessary unit tests and integration tests
• All checks passed in ./risedev check (or alias, ./risedev c)

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[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #3020 (c151584) into main (87b9397) will decrease coverage by 0.05%.
The diff coverage is 35.82%.

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- Coverage   73.16%   73.10%   -0.06%     
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  Files         724      725       +1     
  Lines       97255    97387     +132     
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+ Hits        71154    71199      +45     
- Misses      26101    26188      +87     

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rust	73.10% <35.82%> (-0.06%)	⬇️

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/common/src/lib.rs	100.00% <ø> (ø)
src/stream/src/lib.rs	100.00% <ø> (ø)
src/utils/stats_alloc/src/lib.rs	30.43% <30.43%> (ø)
src/common/src/collection/evictable.rs	72.58% <66.66%> (-1.01%)	⬇️
src/stream/src/executor/managed_state/join/mod.rs	73.07% <70.00%> (-0.49%)	⬇️
src/common/src/types/ordered_float.rs	24.70% <0.00%> (-0.20%)	⬇️

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