fix: Update CI workflow versions to latest

[bryantbiggs]

Description

• Update CI workflow versions to latest
• Update pre-commit versions to latest
• Align and standardize .gitignore with other modules
• Add rmz to speed up unnecessary file removal in GitHub CI environment. There is now a conditional for the pre-commit run -a step (named Max TF pre-commit in the GitHub UI) that will delete more files for the security group module since it will consume a lot of space due to all the sub-modules. Otherwise we remove just enough in the quickest fashion to get on with business.

Motivation and Context

• Updates our workflows to use the latest versions
• Standardize common CI files across modules so we can "automate" updates in the future (right now it just a bash script on my local machine)

Breaking Changes

• No

How Has This Been Tested?

• I have updated at least one of the examples/* to demonstrate and validate my change(s)
• I have tested and validated these changes using one or more of the provided examples/* projects
• I have executed pre-commit run -a on my pull request