[readme][grammar]: use singular they pronouns

[ckiee]

This is more inclusive of non-binary people.

See more: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they

[LoneSimba]

Please, just stop.

[ckiee]

@LoneSimba @mwaitzman
This change is a quality-of-life improvement for gender nonconforming people to make us feel a bit more at home, for me, there's not much more to it; I don't go around looking for stuff like this to make PRs for, I just come upon it [0].

Do you want to make a few people's lives just a bit better for little-to-no effort? I do, and that's all I'm trying to do with this: I don't want to "turn you gay" [1] nor am I trying to erase white cishet [2] men; I just want to get on with my life knowing I've helped others.

[0] In this case, I discovered this on the orange site and I'm pretty sure this is my first PR of this nature.
[1] That is probably impossible.
[2] Cisgender and heterosexual, a.k.a. most of the programmer population.
Sidenote: It'd be nice if you were more clear: telling me to "just stop" without explaining why isn't a very good opening to an argument. Explain why you don't like it.

[vfxdev]

It's a minimal change that does not alter the meaning of the text nor does it reduce its comprehensibility but at the same time helps a few people. I'm confident the inappropriate comments will be ignored and this will be merged swiftly.

[mwaitzman]

If it was originally like that I'd be fine with it and encourage it for the increased efficiency (significantly less letters), but changing it now is just stupid pandering
We already have an ungodly amount of political correctness infecting the U.S. as it is. Please don't force it onto our repos now too...
In your kind's terms, let this be our "safe space". Don't make us have to deal with your stupid bullshit here, please.

[ckiee]

@mwaitzman

In your kind's terms, let this be our "safe space". Don't make us have to deal with your stupid bullshit here, please.

I read: "Don't make us have to consider the fact people that aren't identical to us exist. Let us remain in blissful ignorance."

Where do you get your information / news? Can you verify it elsewhere? (A habit of mine is to DuckDuckGo the same piece of information, but staying unbiased so results from both sides can appear. Not Google since they probably "customize" your search results)

We already have an ungodly amount of political correctness infecting the U.S. as it is

You read PC, I read respecting others.

but changing it now is just stupid pandering

"Stupid pandering" that helps make some people feel at home.
This has already been mentioned to you thrice, try to think of this like you run a program in your head or write a proof in math. It can be helpful to actually understand the other side's thought process, even if you disagree.

[AverseABFun]

Okay, WOW. I was not expecting to see a bunch of homophobic/transphobic bs today and I really hope this gets merged(I actually noticed this independently when reading the book).

[AverseABFun]

@mwaitzman @LoneSimba Think about what you have said, but mentally replace "LGBTQ" "enby" "gay" or anything of the sort to "black" or mentally add context that this is racist instead of homophobic or transphobic. We all can agree that racism is bad, right? So is homophobia and transphobia.

[LoneSimba]

@mwaitzman @LoneSimba Think about what you have said, but mentally replace "LGBTQ" "enby" "gay" or anything of the sort to "black" or mentally add context that this is racist instead of homophobic or transphobic. We all can agree that racism is bad, right? So is homophobia and transphobia.

TBH, don't care about racism, i mean, most of the world seem to hate russians anyways, so why should i care?

Upd: tho, being enter nation or race here != beign mentally ill, imo. (Yes, I'm stating that all those non-binary, trans and other all-colors-of-rainbow people should be visiting therapists, and those, who wont benefit in any way from selling them drugs/medications or rainbow-colored clothes)

[OtterCodes101]

as a trans person, i do indeed visit a therapist and visit trained professionals, as any sane person would know, you can't just rely on meds to stay sane, you need someone to talk to as well

[AverseABFun]

@LoneSimba ...

I am agender, asexual, panromantic and the gayest person you can find. tbh, I'm having trouble reading what you just said as I don't even understand what you are trying to say. Except that what I can understand, you are saying that you don't care about racism, homophobia, and transphobia. ALL OF THOSE THINGS, BY DEFINITION, EMOTIONALLY HURT PEOPLE. Also, LGBTQ != needs therapy. LGBTQ means we identify a certain way, not that we act in such a way that we need mental help.

[kosmas12]

Gender-related discussion or not, using "they" just makes more sense. It's much more efficient than saying "his or her" as some have pointed out here and it just feels more gramatically correct. I don't get why this PR hasn't already been merged and people are instead arguing

[LoneSimba]

@LoneSimba ...

I am agender, asexual, panromantic and the gayest person you can find. tbh, I'm having trouble reading what you just said as I don't even understand what you are trying to say. Except that what I can understand, you are saying that you don't care about racism, homophobia, and transphobia. ALL OF THOSE THINGS, BY DEFINITION, EMOTIONALLY HURT PEOPLE. Also, LGBTQ != needs therapy. LGBTQ means we identify a certain way, not that we act in such a way that we need mental help.

You may think so. What I'm saying, is that people are biologically either a male or a female. Either XX or XY. If your mental state doesn't match - then it's a health issue. Most likely, caused by some traumatic experiences. And i see supporting this instead of treating as a crime.

[LoneSimba]

Gender-related discussion or not, using "they" just makes more sense. It's much more efficient than saying "his or her" as some have pointed out here and it just feels more gramatically correct. I don't get why this PR hasn't already been merged and people are instead arguing

That is true

[AverseABFun]

@LoneSimba You may think so. What I'm saying, is that people are biologically either a male or a female. Either XX or XY. If your mental state doesn't match - then it's a health issue. Most likely, caused by some traumatic experiences. And i see supporting this instead of treating as a crime.

1. Ever heard of intersex? 2. Transgender people are people too, and when trans people take hormones outside of genetic markers they become biologically whatever sex they choose to become. 3. MENTAL STATE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX! YOU DON'T GO TO "The Female Therapist" or "The Male Therapist" WHEN YOU GET THERAPY! 4. There are so, so, SO many other ways for mental state to change outside of traumatic experiences. If you don't think so, cite your sources.

[LoneSimba]

@LoneSimba You may think so. What I'm saying, is that people are biologically either a male or a female. Either XX or XY. If your mental state doesn't match - then it's a health issue. Most likely, caused by some traumatic experiences. And i see supporting this instead of treating as a crime.

1. Ever heard of intersex? 2. Transgender people are people too, and when trans people take hormones outside of genetic markers they become biologically whatever sex they choose to become. 3. MENTAL STATE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX! YOU DON'T GO TO "The Female Therapist" or "The Male Therapist" WHEN YOU GET THERAPY! 4. There are so, so, SO many other ways for mental state to change outside of traumatic experiences. If you don't think so, cite your sources.

1. There is no biologically intersex people. You are always are born with either a penile or a vag, XY or XX 2. They take hormones. Its not what their body produces, and i saw a lot of ppl who switched back and forth and then said it was a mistake and now their body is really screwed up because of those medications. 3. Yes it does. And yes, i do go the "the male therapist". 4. Yes, there are. But it won't change your genome. XY imprinted in the mothers womb will stay XY no matter how much pills you take or how much surgery you do

[OtterCodes101]

i've tried to stay as fucking neutral as i could with this but you're just coping at this point
Biologically intersex people exist
It is indeed possible to have chromosomes other than XX or XY
Go look into a lil' thing called advanced biology