feat: stmt support sql custom mask handle

[smithyj]

在 finish 记录日志时，可以自定义 sql 掩码处理，防止日志泄密

[codecov]

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Project coverage is 95.10%. Comparing base (8690859) to head (010d81e).
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Files	Coverage Δ
core/stores/sqlx/stmt.go	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)

... and 254 files with indirect coverage changes